The Big Boy Concept
By: Hifzur Rehman
URL: www.selfimprovement.ch
Being the eldest son of my parents, I became the “big boy” of the family. My parents gave me the status of a “big boy” and started giving me the tasks that were somewhat challenging for me at that young age. Whenever, I had some hesitation in doing a certain task, they used to encourage me by saying, “you are a big boy, you can do it”. Though I was a small boy at that time but my confidence level grew to the new heights and I started behaving myself as a big boy. That “big boy” concept slowly developed into the “I can do” philosophy which has helped me a lot through out my life.
The “I can do” philosophy prepares you mentally, as well physically, to do what otherwise you think you cannot do. The “big boy” concept boosts your inner energy level to such an extent where you start believing, “you can do”. And that is the starting point which open the doors of success for you.
Whenever I have to face a challenge, I say to myself “I can do it because I am a big boy” and that encourages me a lot in overcoming my fears and provides my body with the extra energy needed to do that “impossible” task.
The “big boy” concept is always helpful to anyone. It takes away all your weaknesses and thus enables you to accept big challenges. By accepting big challenges, you invite big opportunities and thus get big rewards.
Success in life comes to the people who think big, act big and are willing to accept big responsibilities. Make yourself feel big. Plan something big. Surprise your colleagues by accepting big responsibilities. Be always willing to do big tasks. Once you accept yourself as a big boy or a big girl then nothing can come in your way of success.
When you think of big, what comes to your mind? Big income, big profit, big rewards, big money, big business, big achievement, big social status, etc. Yes, you can get anything big by truly becoming a “big boy”.
It does not matter whether you are old or young, man or woman. If you want to succeed in life then think yourself as a big boy or a big girl. Why people fail and live a miserable life? Because they lack the courage, strength and stamina of a BIG BOY/GIRL.
About the Author:
Hifzur Rehman is the Editor and Founder of www.selfimprovement.ch
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